Whenever holidays roll around I always wonder how our armed forces will celebrate while abroad.
How do duty stations accommodate the need of our domestic traditions???
And what happens if you are stationed overseas and your family is back home?
What I found on the Military One Source website are tips to help make the holidays feel more like home (if your family is with you).
Here is what they say:
Bring the holidays with you.
When you are packing up all your belongs for the big move bring things (small things) for each holiday to make your new home feel more familiar. Whether it be special ornaments, stockings, photos etc let your kids unpack the box with the "holiday goodies" to help them acclimate. It can also be fun to add new treasures to the old ones. Maybe ones that are representative of the area you are in - it will also teach your children about the local culture and broaden their "holiday horizon".
Advanced preparation.
If we think back orders are a pain here lets think about how long it will take something shipping from the United States to get overseas. Also, shipping and handling will probably be higher so planning ahead of time on things you want or need for the holidays is essential. If you are a lucky one with a postal service center it will make online ordering much easier but just make sure you know your correct address. And what if you want to order perishable items? Check with the local embassy or postal service office to see if what their restrictions are. Apparently it is advised to start your "advanced preparations" in October!
Make a list and check it twice!
A list will keep you excited and busy and its a good way to keep your kids in the spirits of the holidays. They may get excited for the third task on the list and they can mentally prepare for that day. Who knows what joy it may bring them to see what needs to be done and empower them to make their house feel like a home.
DIY
I am a huge advocate of making things yourself. It will save you money and also create more activities to enjoy as a family. What about a Christmas tree? If your host country does not offer them switch over to a suitable alternative like a native tree or shrub. Or even better make one out of wire and felt - it could be really cute!
Turkey? Duck? Chicken? Ham?
Typically, the heart of a holiday celebration is the meal. Depending on where you are you may have to get creative on the main course. If you are used to having a turkey dinner but can only have duck...well thats all you can have. Get creative and just go with the flow :) Also, do your shopping early because the supplies with be limited.
Gather together and reach out!
Chances are everyone else around you is missing home and their friends so why not get together and celebrate as one. Another way of reaching out is by volunteering and isn't that the true tradition of the holidays???
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Ok so what if you are deployed? How do you feel the love of home???
By giving thanks in your community - whether you are thanking someone or they are thanking you.
Here is what the Army is doing over the holiday season.
["While the Thanksgiving meals are important, the holiday, as its name implies, is also about "thanks" and "giving." As such, Soldiers everywhere are participating in community activities and doing things to help the needy.
KUWAIT
This month, Soldiers stationed in Kuwait came together for a Thanksgiving meal with Kuwaiti school children in their early teens.
Staff Sgt. Jennifer C. Manaday, a civil affairs team sergeant with the 352nd Civil Affairs Command attached to U.S. Army Central, said she was happy to have had the opportunity to attend the celebration and learn more about the Kuwaitis while sharing some of her own Thanksgiving experiences.
KOREA
Meanwhile on the other side of Asia in Korea, Americans stationed there this month were learning how to make kimchi, the main Korean dish, from the locals at the Annual Kimchi Charity Event in Dongducheon.
Although the traditional Korean Thanksgiving Day, called chuseok, is celebrated every September 19, Soldiers had the opportunity to partake of Thanksgiving food Nov. 15 that was different from the traditional Turkey meal.
GERMANY
In Grafenwoehr, Germany, the Army Chaplains Office will donate $24,000 worth of commissary gift cards to Soldiers and families in need at U.S. Army Garrison Bavaria.
The criteria for who makes it onto the list varies from family to family. Those with Army Emergency Relief loans, debt, a new baby, "or even single income families with four kids who are just struggling," are eligible for the program, explained Sgt. 1st Class Ryan Barnard, Headquarters and Headquarters Company, U.S. Army Garrison Bavaria.
First sergeants disburse the cards to their Soldiers with little fanfare.
"A lot of folks aren't willing to ask for help even though they need it, so we try to do it discretely," said Barnard.
"They're going through trying times," said 1st Sgt. Darrell Vargas, Warrior Transition Battalion-Europe.
The commissary gift cards will help make the holidays less stressful and more enjoyable for the Soldiers, he said.
"They will get to celebrate Thanksgiving together and take a little less out of their pockets," he said. "They're focusing their vouchers on food so they can buy gifts for the holidays."
Not far away in Gottschied Elementary School in Germany, Soldiers were spending their off-duty time helping German students practice their English.
MASSACHUSETTS
Tradition has it that the first Thanksgiving meal was attended in 1621 by the Pilgrims and American Indians at Plymouth in Massachusetts.
Not too far from Plymouth is Natick, Mass., where Soldiers and Army civilians this month are donating hundreds of pounds of winter clothing that will go to homeless veterans in the New England area.
Sarah Ross, the Human Research Volunteer program coordinator, and Darren Bean, an equipment specialist with Product Manager Soldier Clothing and Individual Equipment, wanted to do anything they could to help.
"We just wanted to give back," said Bean. "There are so many employees here, so many veterans on post, as well."
Bean added that there are more than 300 veterans on the installation and said that he and Ross thought to put a clothing drive together to help where some are hit the hardest.
"This is supposed to be one of the worst winters, so we decided it was a good idea," said Bean.
Ross and Bean said the drive focused particularly on winter items such as heavy coats, jackets, gloves and boots, but added that they also received other items, like hygiene products.
OKLAHOMA
Family members and friends of the 578th Forward Support Company at Fort Sill, Okla., are staying connected and involved with a physical fitness program that bridges the divide that keeps them apart from their deployed Soldiers over Thanksgiving and the rest of the holiday season.
The idea of "Walk for 578th" was the brainchild of Ashley Barre, fiancee of Sgt. Sean Bourgasser. Barre and other family readiness group members decided that since deployed Soldiers do some form of physical fitness training every day, they could feel more connected to their far-away loved ones by doing the same.
To close the gap between deployed Soldiers and their family members at home, the Family Readiness Group, or FRG, decided to walk nearly 8,000 miles -- the distance that separates Lawton from the United Arab Emirates. All miles logged by loved ones through physical exercise is counted in the hopes of reaching the magic number before their Soldiers come home in early 2014. To do this, the FRG created a walk Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com /groups/578FSC/) in which spouses, parents, friends or other family members of the deployed Soldiers can join by "liking" the page to begin logging miles.
"Originally, the idea was just for the families, but now the Soldiers have started getting involved," said Vanessa Norman, 578th FRG leader. "We're running, biking, walking and jogging toward them; and they are running, jogging and walking toward us."
The event began Aug. 31, and what once seemed like a momentous challenge, now appears to be within just a few more steps. As of Oct. 25, the group had completed nearly 5,000 miles, leaving only slightly more than 3,000 miles to go.
To aid them in reaching their goal, the 578th FRG has a final "hoorah" walk scheduled for December.
WASHINGTON, D.C.
Eighty Soldiers from 3rd U.S. Infantry Regiment (The Old Guard), carried more than 1,300 pounds of non-perishable food and supplies from Joint Base Myer-Henderson Hall, Va., to the Father McKenna Center in Washington, D.C., during a road march, Nov. 14, to help those in homeless shelters.
Spc. Jacob Caughey said it was easy to stay motivated throughout the five-mile march.
"All I could think about was how all the food we were carrying was going to help someone," he said. "I felt great knowing that we were doing this public service."
Twelve of the 80 Soldiers also stayed behind to help serve during the morning meal.
NEW YORK
A lot of Soldiers in New York will be away from family and friends this Thanksgiving.
With the last flight carrying the final contingent of the nearly 2,000 Soldiers lifting off from the runway at Fort Drum's Wheeler-Sack Army Airfield this month, the final deployment of the 10th Mountain Division's 3rd Brigade Combat Team, was officially under way.
The brigade will be assigned to Regional Command-East, an area of Afghanistan that shares a border with Pakistan. Larger than the state of Virginia, RC-East includes the provinces of Bamyan, Ghazni, Kapisa, Khost, Kunar, Laghman, Logar, Nangarhar, Nuristan, Paktika, Paktiya, Panjshayr, Parwan and Wardak.
Once there, Soldiers will begin their mission as a security force and advising brigade, primarily focused on providing support and assistance to Afghan forces. So in a way, the Soldiers will be giving their time and energy to help the Afghans have a better way of life."
(The following Army journalists contributed to this article: Sgt. Adam Keith, U.S. Army Central; Chelsea Bissell, U.S. Army Garrison Bavaria Public Affairs; Staff Sgt. Carlos R. Davis, 210th Fires Brigade Public Affairs; Tazanyia Mouton,U.S. Army Garrison Natick; 1st Lt. Travis Womack, Fort Sill Public Affairs; Staff Sgt. Luisito Brooks, The Old Guard Public Affairs; and Sgt. Javier S. Amador, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 10th Mountain Division.)]
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But what can we do for the people who serve our country???
A care package is a great way to start.
It honestly is the least we can do...
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